Their spouses are not aware - so it is not a consensual swap.
In comments on an article about couples counseling posted on Très Sugar, a site devoted to women of Generation Y, a woman writes that she’s going in for a few counseling sessions with her boyfriend of three months.
While people should be married when they feel the time is right, it is heartening to see that people are taking their commitment seriously and feeling more confident about their decisions.
I have now met a 4th person who is married and is sleeping with someone else that is also married.
Enneagram profiling is helpful for dating and married couples to understand each other’s personalities, and to be aware of each other’s traits, coping mechanisms, emotional blind spots, and even communication styles.
Awareness leads to further understanding; having a relationship coach work with you and your other half to outline what makes each other tick, react, or retreat, based on your personality type, will enable the both of you to develop a better understanding of each other.